Raising an ISFP Child as an INFP Parent

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) outlines 16 types of personalities. Each personality type has its own set of traits, preferences, and tendencies, which can significantly influence parenting styles. The personality types are based on 4 dichotomies:

• Extraversion (E) vs Introversion (I)
• Sensing (S) vs Intuition (N)
• Thinking (T) vs Feeling (F)
• Judging (J) vs Perceiving (P)

From the analytical and precise to the imaginative and holistic, each of the 16 personality types identified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) brings its own set of strengths and challenges when it comes to parenting. Let’s explore how an INFP parent can navigate their parenting strengths and weaknesses when raising an ISFP child.

INFP Strengths:

You and your ISFP child both share the cognitive strength of “introvert feeling.” This means you both can connect over shared personal likes and dislikes, and share the same value for empathy and self-expression. 

INFP Weaknesses:

While you and your ISFP child can relate to your values for self-expression and shared interests, having different personal interests can result in clashes. Both of you are very devoted to what you value, so having differences in values can cause major conflict. In addition, their practicality can sometimes clash with your idealistic views.

Overcoming Weaknesses:

• Respect Their Independence: Allow them space to explore their interests and express their creativity.
• Appreciate how they channel their creativity into practical projects and goals.
• Appreciate Differences: Embrace their love for hands-on experiences and learning through doing.

Raising Tips:

• Artistic Outlets: Encourage their artistic pursuits, whether through painting, music, or other creative outlets.
• Nature Exploration: ISFPs often connect with nature. Plan outdoor activities and nature walks.
• Celebrate Individuality: Emphasize the importance of being true to oneself, as both your personality types place extra value on this.
• Emotional Support: Offer a listening ear for their feelings and experiences.

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